Thursday, 14 May 2009

how should we live our life?

back to posting. it seems this past week is more of wisdom week. hahaha. now after hearing wat people say about others or about me i began to wonder. how should we live our life. be nice to people and dont tell them off straight or be tell em straight to the face? should i express my anger or kip it to myself and worry about others feelings more? should i follow the changes some said or should i just do wat i normally do?
its weird. cos no matter how we deny it, but wat others comments make a big impact in life. so for me i rather live my life without telling others off and kip my anger in check. cos at least should i die *touchwood* tml then people will rmb me in good stead instead of bad way. besides telling people straight off is really demoralising. even though people may go "its ok i am used to it" they are just hiding the awful truth that the bad comment actually hurt em. most will feel that way. some are just really immune to it. lol. but even then i rather not take the chance to hurt someone. i know i have been insensitive to people's feelings at times but i tried my utmost best not to.
so now the question is. the person being criticised/advised should he/she changed his/her way to follow wat people say or live life how we want to live it? personally for me, i rather live my own life. some advices i will take others i will ignore. cos i know i am imperfect(some people will just say straight up i am not in the good look category) so instead of trying to be perfect for others i will just be perfect for myself. of course like i say some advices can be taken like i should smile more instead of having a stone-walled look. lol. but i feel if anyone wants to live how people want em to live then its just wrong. its ur life live it. people may tink they know u but in reality no one noes u like u know urself. once in a while, say sometink positive to urself cos a good praise from others is hard to come by but criticism is.
to end this. the question goes out to all readers of this blog. how should u live ur life?

*And in the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years.*-abraham lincoln

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